Compatibility testing!

Relationship of any kind can be hard to conquer can't they? Whilst human anatomy is generally the same, our genetic make up, environment, experiences and history all have a role in to play in the formation of our behaviours, beliefs and consciousness. As we navigate the perils of life, we often find ourselves in the company of people who are 'not our people' and then have to use, sometimes, dishonest strategies to move away from situations and relationships that do not blend well with our energy. At times we are laden with guilt or frustration at knowing we have either hurt someone or are going to be hurt due to our inability to 'get them'.

One of my favourite discoveries using dowsing is to test the compatibility of a person or people prior to embarking on the connection. I use this technique in many areas of my life and it gives me a good gage of whether this person is worth my time and investment. This is particularly useful for relationships where it's likely that you'll spend alot of time together such as a boss, business partner or a potential partner.

Using the power of QI via dowsing, it's possible to discover whether the QE (soul entanglement) is one that will give beneficial outcomes for both parties or if it's best to leave alone.

People don't have to be an exact match, infact it's great if someone isn't exactly like you as this gives each person the opportunity to grow and learn and uterlise each others skills and resources for a favourable outcome. It is however important that you share the same core values that are at the centre of your being. I find it fascinating to explore all the possibilities of potential conflict and discover if this person is someone that one can respect and value despite differences.

The first step is knowing what we value and is important to us on a long term basis. For example; if you are considering working for an organisation and the boss values targets and profit, then this is great, if you too value targets and profit. If however you are someone that values joy in task or harmony in the work place, a profit driven boss may not be the most compatible match and will leave both people unfulfilled.

Similarly, if you have just met someone and you are excited by the prospect of this being 'the one' it's worth understanding what your values are in the long term when it comes to intimacy, lifestyle, financial stability and habits. None of us are perfect, but if someone is a pretty close match when it comes to the daily grind of cohabiting, then we may see that that person is perfect for us.

I like to list all the things I consider important to me and I ask to what level of importance this is to me using a percentage scale. And what is really interesting is when I change the word and ask what is best for me and get a different answer. Phrasing the question correctly is paramount when dowsing as is knowing what outcome is desired. The more specific the questioning, the more accurate the response.

In my previous life I was a trainer and facilitator and it has helped me massively when structuring my questions. I have used this technique in other areas of my journey of self discovery. I'm a bit anti pharmaceutical and tend to prefer a more natural approach to health. However there are times when medication can give a preferred outcome at the expense of its side effects. Working with QI allows me to connect with my souls purpose and rediscover things I didn't know about myself. And as energies are all connected, it can working for you too 😉